The short answer to your question is no. I don't think you want a short answer. I think you could be chasing demons that don't exist. I have duals as you describe, but I am not about to try to convince you to go that way. Exhaust is a personal preference that you have to live with daily.
I watched and listened as my muffler shop tried different mufflers on the Nitro. In the end they started it up without any muffler. These vehicles are not that loud without a muffler. They need a muffler because they are harsh and raspy without one, not because they are loud. I can't possible know what you have heard in your life as a reference, but there is no comparison to the magnitude of sound volume of a Nitro compared to a 5.7 L V8 with, lets say, glass packs.
I am telling you this because while the stock muffler and resonator are somewhat restrictive, you need to understand that so are the stock catalytic converters. I wouldn't dare suggest doing anything with them. I only remember one forum member that ripped off his converters, but he was driving a lot off road.
What you do with the muffler should be done for your satisfaction only. Period. A muffler change will not dramatically change your mileage one way or another unless it makes you stand on it more because you like the sound.
Performance is a different story. I have the R/T. What I noticed immediately upon installing the exhaust was the engine spins up faster. For me, this made the change worth it.
Sounds. I chose to go with duals because I favor the stereo sound you get from dual pipes. I wanted some harmony, not just a loud exhaust. For 8 months, I had a Flowmaster on mine. I began to experience more resonance than I liked, so a week or so ago I had it replaced with a Magnaflow. The sound at idle is about the same between the two. However, above 2800 rpm, the Flowmaster begins to get it with a little burrpp (tuner sound) resonance that diminishes around 4000 rpm. The Magnaflow is melodious right up through these same rpm ranges and peaks with a pleasing roar about 3/4 as loud as the Flowmaster. Another difference, my wife likes the Magnaflow and hated the Flowmaster.
If you are wanting to change your exhaust for the small performance increase and not so much for the sound then you might want to consider a Borla to replace the stock muffler and ditching the resonator. Borla will not be that much louder than stock. If you want volume increase, remove the resonator and drive around with the stock muffler for a while before you do anything else. At least that will give you a base line from which go when you do change your muffler.
You also might want to find a different shop. Could be they just didn't want to take the time to install duals because they have to make the crossover. Whatever you do, you are the only one that needs to be satisfied with the results.