One other thing about these mufflers, most of these companies make long bodied designs and short bodied designs. The long ones are a lot more mellow than the short ones. If you want louder, go with the short bodied one. If they quoted you the Flowmaster 50 SUV, they were most likely talking about the long body design.
As far as the difference in these mufflers sounding louder from the 3.7 to the 4.0, that shouldn't make any difference if you are talking about only listening to them on the 3.7 or only on the 4.0. The muffler guys told me which ones were louder, then set about proving what they told me by installing each one succession.