I know this has been done to death and I have read every thread on here having to do with this subject but what is the bottom line? My Nitro book says the towing capacity is 3500 lbs. Every hitch listed on ebay as OEM style is rated 2000 towing/200 tongue wt. Every below the bumper fascia aftermarket trailer hitch is rated 3500 towing and 350 tongue weight. I would rather have the factory appearance with the "in bumper" mount and bezel but would also rather have the extra 1500 lb towing cushion even though it meant 2 inches less ground clearance. I guess my question is if I go with the factory OEM hitch and bezel mount am I limited to 2000 towing capacity? Thanks to all and I appreciate it.